Stories, science and secrets from the world’s brightest thought-leaders. Behavioral Grooves is the podcast that satisfies your curiosity of why we do what we do. Explanations of human behavior that will improve your relationships, your wellbeing, and your organization by helping you find your groove.
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Hospice doctor, podcaster, and author Jordan Grumet joins us to explore why the traditional idea of “finding your purpose” might actually be making us miserable. Drawing from his work with patients at the end of life, Jordan challenges the pressure to chase big, lofty goals—or what he calls “big P” Purpose—and instead invites us to embrace “little p” purposes: the simple, joyful activities that ground us and connect us to others. From childhood passions to quiet regrets, Jordan shares practical ways to identify what truly lights you up and how to build a life that feels meaningful—without overhauling everything.
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[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Jordan Grumet
[7:01] Why Is Purpose So Important?
[10:52] Why Big P Goals Can Cause Anxiety
[16:43] Childhood Joys, Baseball Cards, & Writing
[19:32] You Can’t Fail Little P Purpose
[24:09] Overcoming Barriers to Purpose
[34:41] Regret vs. Disappointment
[46:25] Grooving Session: Creativity, Cadence, and Purposeful Context
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Thursday May 29, 2025
Thursday May 29, 2025
In this monthly bonus episode, we tap into insights from our Facebook community to explore what keeps us feeling stuck in our habits and goals. With help from behavioral science, we unpack the hidden forces behind inertia, fear, and comfort zones — and share practical strategies to break free. If you're ready to stop spinning your wheels and get back in your groove, this one’s for you.
Topics
[0:00] Behavioral Boot Camp!
[2:15] Insights from Groove Questions
[6:34] Self-Confidence
[10:03] Risk Aversion and Community Support
[13:25] Final Thoughts - Trust Your Instincts!
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Monday May 26, 2025
Monday May 26, 2025
How do our brains choose what’s important to us? Emily Falk, neuroscientist and author of What We Value, joins us to decode what goes on behind the scenes with our decisions - everything from what to eat for breakfast to how to respond to trolls on social media - and how emotional, rational, and social information is integrated by the brain to guide our choices.
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Topics
[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Emily Falk
[8:29] Understanding Value Calculations
[12:58] Research Methods and fMRI
[18:01] Self-Relevance and Social Relevance Systems
[28:41] Defensiveness and Social Norms
[40:49] The Importance of Being "In Sync"
[58:17] The Role or Music in Self/Social Relevance
[1:07:45] Grooving Session: Communication, Social Norms, and Behavioral Science at Work
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Communication Neuroscience Lab
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Dar Williams - As Cool As I Am
Monday May 19, 2025
Monday May 19, 2025
Faisal Naru traces the explosive growth of behavioral science in policy from 2010 to today, highlighting how Global South nations are using it to address complex problems like poverty and public health. He makes the case for embedding behavioral science teams into organizations long-term—moving from quick “silver bullet” fixes to enduring “golden nuggets” of insight.
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[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Faisal Naru
[6:42] Behavioral Science Policy Units and Global Trends
[15:23] Global Approaches - North vs. South
[24:33] How Different Systems Support Behavioral Science
[36:25] The Golden Nuggets of Behavioral Policy
[48:55] Desert Island Music
[51:22] Grooving Session: The Future of Behavioral Science
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Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
What if the key to growth isn’t finding better answers, but asking better questions? In this episode, Elizabeth Weingarten shares insights from her book How to Fall in Love with Questions, exploring how embracing uncertainty can lead to greater self-awareness, resilience, and connection. Blending personal stories, behavioral science, and wisdom from poet Rilke, she introduces the idea of a “questions practice” — a mindset shift that helps us navigate life’s toughest moments with curiosity and clarity.
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Topics
[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Elizabeth Weingarten
[11:04] The Power of Loving Questions
[15:50] The Biological Need for Certainty
[21:48] The Role of Patience in Asking Questions
[39:18] Questions and the Role of Behavioral Science
[47:57] Desert Island Music
[50:38] Grooving Session: The Value of Sitting With Questions
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Monday May 05, 2025
Monday May 05, 2025
Economist and philosopher Mark Fabian joins the show to explore how we can move beyond the pursuit of happiness toward a deeper, values-driven life. Drawing from behavioral science, philosophy, and his new book Beyond Happy, Mark challenges the idea of happiness as an end goal and introduces the concept of “generalized flow.” From escaping the hedonic treadmill to cultivating self-awareness and community, this episode is a guide to rethinking what it means to live well.
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Topics
[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Mark Fabian
[8:56] Concept of Well-Being and Happiness
[15:45] How to Live a Valuable Life
[25:19] How to Discover Your Core Self
[32:54] Self-Actualization and Community
[42:42] The Role of Flow and Zest in a Good Life
[51:05] Desert Island Music
[56:18] Grooving Session: Zest, Identity, and Reframing Happiness
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Mihaly Csikzentmihalyi’s research on Flow
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The Weeknd - House of Balloons
Monday Apr 28, 2025
Monday Apr 28, 2025
What if we stopped trying to win or avoid conflict—and instead built the resilience to grow through it? In this episode, neurologist Joel Salinas and conflict resolution expert Bob Bordone offer a powerful reframe on disagreement, showing how neuroscience and self-awareness can help us break old patterns and build stronger relationships.
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[0:00] BG Special Announcement!
[1:15] Intro and Speed Round with Joel and Bob
[6:29] What is Conflict Resilience?
[10:41] The Neuroscience Behind Conflict
[18:35] Understanding Our Reflexive Conflict Responses
[25:03] Practical Applications and Examples
[32:15] Neuroplasticity and Changing How We Handle Disagreement
[42:15] Building a Culture of Conflict Resilience at Work
[49:45] Dolly Parton: A Model for Growth?
[53:15] Desert Island Music Picks
[55:15] Grooving Session: Conflict Resilience at Work and Beyond
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Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In
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Thursday Apr 24, 2025
Thursday Apr 24, 2025
In this special republish episode science journalist David McRaney joins us to explore the surprising science behind belief, persuasion, and why minds change. We discuss tribal truth, perceptual differences (remember the dress?), and why Step Zero—examining why you want to change someone’s mind—is essential for meaningful dialogue.
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[4:18] Welcome and speed round questions.
[11:18] How minds change vs. how to change minds.
[14:35] How is elaboration different from learning?
[27:27] Mini Grooving Session on the difference between beliefs, opinions and attitudes.
[34:09] Why do you want to change someone’s mind?
[41:03] The moment David realized he should question why, not just how to change minds.
[52:55] Mini Grooving Session on why to change minds.
[57:27] Why some see the dress as gold & white and some see it as blue & black.
[1:18:28] Mini Grooving Session on the dress and the crocs.
[1:22:15] Truth is tribal.
[1:35:33] Mini Grooving Session on having a social safety net.
[1:40:38] What was the catalyst for David becoming interested in conspiracy theories?
[1:46:19] How to get people off the conspiratorial loop?
[1:51:23] What musical artists would David take to a desert island?
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How Minds Change: The Surprising Science of Belief, Opinion, and Persuasion by David McRaney
Wallisch, Pascal & Karlovich, Michael. (2019). Disagreeing about Crocs and socks: Creating profoundly ambiguous color displays
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Radiohead - No Surprises
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Monday Apr 21, 2025
Monday Apr 21, 2025
Kweilin Ellingrud, McKinsey’s Global Chief of Diversity and Inclusion, joins us to discuss The Broken Rung—the missed first promotion that derails many women's careers before they even begin. She shares how to build “experience capital,” why soft skills matter more than we think, and how the right first moves can lead to long-term equity and empowerment. With practical advice for women and leaders alike, this episode is a call to action to fix the ladder from the bottom up.
Topics
[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Kweilin Ellingrud
[5:39] What is the “Broken Rung”?
[12:00] Strategies for Overcoming the Broken Rung
[20:36] Building Skills to Future-Proof Careers
[30:39] Addressing Biases and Cognitive Biases
[35:47] Personal Health and Financial Well-being
[41:10] Desert Island Music
[43:19] Grooving Session - Networking, Bias, and Building Experience Capital
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The Broken Rung - by Kweilin Ellingrud, Lareina Yee, and Mareia del Mar Martinez
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Monday Apr 14, 2025
Monday Apr 14, 2025
Dr. Rosalind Chow joins us to explore how status, power, and perspective shape what we view as “reasonable”—and why marginalized voices are often held to a different standard. From stalled DEI efforts to the illusion of objectivity among dominant groups, Rosalind challenges us to rethink who gets to define what counts as change.
Topics
[0:00] Intro and Speed Round
[6:26] The difference between sponsorship and mentorship
[10:13] Why corporate relationships are important
[16:05] Why DEI efforts often stall
[27:00] The moral cost of assimilations
[31:20] Well-meaning allies
[46:56] Desert Island music
[50:15] Grooving Session - The importance of Mentorship
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The Doors You Can Open - by Rosalind Chow
The Social Psychology of Inequality - CUNY Graduate Center
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